Did you recently experience being dumped by your partner? If you did, then it is possible that you are experiencing something very difficult right at this moment. Remember it is perfectly okay to feel empty and lonely. However, what you need to be considering now is what you are going to do about it. Obviously, you did not want to be dumped so you need to look for ways to get back with your ex. The more time you take, the harder it may be to get your ex back. And even worse, your ex might end up with someone else at which point it may be too late.
Before you try to do any mending, you first need to find out why the breakup occurred in the first place if you want to get your ex to come back to you. Was it that you failed to give enough attention? Were you guilty of taking too many things for granted? Were you doing things over and over that your ex was not pleased with and could not take any longer? Well, whatever you do, finding out is the first part of getting your ex back. And it is absolutely necessary so you can plan your next move.
1. At all costs, avoid calling, texting or emailing your ex. In fact, avoid making any contact at all. Too often after a breakup, the suffering party instinctively wants to try and call the ex to pour out their heart and tell them how sorry they are for causing the breakup. But if you think about it, you will realize that it probably will not work. In fact, it may even annoy your ex to the point of pushing him/her further away from you.
2. Get a makeover – Do you remember how it was when you just met your ex and you literally blew him/her away? Why not try to achieve that again? You could be successful at that if you get a makeover and change your looks completely. How about changing your wardrobe, getting a new hairstyle, or even going on a workout program to get back that old figure? The bottom line is you need to try and make yourself irresistible the next time your ex lays eyes on you.
3. Make your move to get your ex back in your life – After spending some time apart, I’m pretty sure he or she will be missing you uncontrollably. It is a time like this that is most suitable to try and rekindle your relationship. You need to remember that you ex broke up with you so he/she will be afraid to make the first move. Therefore you need to be proactive and make the first move.