Being dumped can be very painful; especially if you were in a serious relationship. It can cause mood swings, irregularity in your eating habits and you simply can’t concentrate on anything without being depressed. So you’re still wondering what went wrong; was it your fault or his, so that you can rectify your troublesome areas, and try to make the relationship work in the second shot. Thinking if you were too over possessive, or too protective, or whether you kept hovering too much, or you simply never gave him or her enough attention. But hold up for a second., the more you delay in getting him or her back, the more are the chances that you guys will never patch up again. So hold up the tears and follow the following methods; it’s a psychologically proven theory, sure to get him or her crawling back to you in no time!

- Don’t be all depressed and teary eyed when you meet your ex. Even if you’re shattering within, hold it inside and act totally normal. So he’ll realize that you’re strong enough to handle any kind of a situation; remember, you want to date them, not be their slave, so make sure you don’t plead and go crying every few minutes.

- Don’t call your ex and beg him to take you back. This is very lame and will totally ruin your chances. This simply makes you look desperate and needy.

- Pretend to be out of town for sometime. Tell him or her that you’re going to out ‘somewhere’ and will be back in a few days, so if he or she needs to talk, it’ll have to wait till you’re back in town. This will build up the anxiety and keep him on his toes, because you’re acting exactly opposite to what he expected! Rest assured he’ll insist on meeting you the day you call and say you’re back!

Now, there is another point I would like you to focus on. To get my ex back, I used a lot of methods utilizing the “make yourself inaccessible” and “invoke your ex’s curiosity” principles. I did it by following a “complete game plan”.

I have made a webpage on how I got my girlfriend back and my story. If you want an ex back, be sure to see my site by clicking here – see a story and “how to”!