Have you had a break-up with your boyfriend or girlfriend recently? If so, then this period must be very difficult for you to go through. Pangs of loneliness and guilt are a natural outcomes of break ups. Do not worry about it to the extent of getting into a depression. It is ok to feel deep regret and hurt. The question you should ask yourself is whether you want to move ahead and try to get over your ex; or do you want to get him back into your life? If it is the latter then it is very important for you to make the first move in quick time. The more you wait the more he will drift away from you or worse still, land up being with some one else.
After you have decided to reverse your break up and get back with your ex, then the first thing you must do is to ask yourself and identify the reasons for your break up. It is important to identify these reasons so that you can prevent these reasons from happening again. Following are some tips we can give you to get back to your ex.
- Control yourself from texting, mailing, calling or getting in touch with your ex for any reason whatever. It is a common tendency to get in touch with your ex right after a break up to discuss the break up or to pore over the reasons of the break up or talk of your guilt. However, this further makes your ex push you out of his life. Do not forget he is also going through a tough time.
- Physical attraction plays an important role in relationships. Remember how you used to spruce yourself up during the initial days of your relationship? When you decide to get back with your ex, you must look your best. Sweep him off his feet when he sets his eyes on you. Hitting the gym regularly or spending a few bucks in the parlor maybe just what the doctor had ordered for.
- After the break up and after not keeping in touch with your ex you can imagine how badly he must be missing you. So after the brief hiatus get in touch with him and make the move. Subtly give signals that you would want t o get back with him. If he has missed you terribly too, it wont be long before he gets the hint.
To get my ex back, I used a lot of methods utilizing the “make yourself inaccessible” and “invoke your ex’s curiosity” principles. I did it by following a “complete game plan.”